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Premarital counseling in New Jersey for committed couples

Premarital counseling here is for engaged couples and for couples making a serious commitment. Nothing has to be wrong to make the call.

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How the sessions work

This is more structured and more educational than ordinary counseling. Most couples finish in six sessions or less. It's one of the few services here with a set length.

The sessions cover subjects like these before the wedding:

  • Families
  • Finances
  • Children
  • Holidays

The sessions will not create problems. They give existing ones a place to come up earlier than they otherwise would.

Who offers premarital counseling here

Almost every clinician at Prologue offers premarital counseling, and three of them are trained in the Gottman Method. Any of the three can run the Gottman Relationship Checkup. It's an optional add-on at $39 per couple, it asks more than 300 questions, and it's HIPAA-compliant.

Common questions


Do we really need premarital counseling if our relationship is already good?

No, you don't need it. Plenty of couples do just fine without it. The sessions assume the two of you are already good. They assume you want to keep it that way for the long haul. They add a set time to talk through the parts of married life that are easy to put off.

What happens if we turn out to disagree about something big?

That can happen in the sessions. It's better to find out before the wedding. Couples therapy can help you work through a disagreement like that and build healthier communication. If one of you is unsure about staying in the relationship at all, discernment counseling is the process built for exactly that question.

What if we're already struggling as a couple?

Couples therapy is the better starting point if the two of you are already struggling. That's what it's built for. It gives you a structured way to keep them that way while you plan the wedding.

How much does it cost, and do you take insurance?

Prologue is a self-pay practice and doesn't participate in insurance panels. The biller can check your out-of-network benefits before treatment starts and file claims on your behalf. Reimbursement comes after your deductible is met. Rates vary by therapist. The free 15-minute call is where you hear the number before anything is booked.

Do we have to meet in person?

No. Sessions run in person in Flemington, or online anywhere in New Jersey.

Call (908) 271-8547or book your free call online